--good health, good job
--family is mostly well
--a very helpful hubby (if I start detailing that, dinner won't get on the table at all! ;-)
--the house is clean, even if it took a month to get there
--small family gatherings; rather do it twice with smaller groups than one huge group
--the people who have stepped up to help my dad
--dinner that is mostly cooked and will be easy to put on the table
--and all of you....